I
have learned that if I want to keep growing, I have to make choices
that are good for me. As I get deeper into this journey, I find that
I often put my own needs on the backburner for the sake of others.
That is not necessarily a bad thing, but right now, focusing on
myself is the most important thing. Once I have discovered a little
bit more about myself, I may find I can flip the switch. However, I
have found that writing this blog is taking more from me than I am
getting in return. So, I have decided that this will be my last blog
post.
I
wanted this blog-writing thing to go a little differently. I had
hoped that I would find that many other people had the same problems
as me and that I would be able to start a dialogue between us.
Unfortunately, that hasn't been the case. Naturally, my mother has
been my biggest fan and commented on everything I've had to say via
facebook, but I'm a big girl now, and I have to look beyond what she
thinks. Although, I still value and appreciate her comments very
much.
There
are many things I can't divulge on the web, and I feel it would be
more beneficial to me to just go old-school and continue writing in
my own private journal where I can be more truthful with myself.
Bottom line, I'm putting myself out there, and it's hard. Being that
I am still fragile, having little to no feedback at times is
detrimental to my growth. The devil can use even something good to
bring me down if I let him, and I refuse to do that.
I
have always wanted to be an encouragement to others and to share my
experiences in hopes that someone else might not feel alone. I will
continue to do that out in the world and will always be available
should anyone want to talk or need advice. I plan to use my extra
time to expand my prayer time with the Lord and to develop my chosen
hobby of block-printing. I'm in the early stages of hand-carving my
own stamps. My plan is to design stamps, carve them, print them on
fabrics, and then sew something awesome out of those fabrics. My
ideal goal is to start a real, thriving business doing that. You can get an idea of what I'm going for here: http://melongings.com/design-story/ Only
time will tell. Either way it goes, I'm excited about having
something fun to do on the side. As my Mama always tells me, “Bye.
I love you. Call me if you need me.”
But
they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall
mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary;
they shall walk and not faint. (Isaiah 40:31)